Most people don’t stumble across their purpose in a single lightning-bolt moment. Instead, it’s something that unfolds over time, a gradual discovery made as you keep moving toward what calls to you. The truth is that you find your purpose by living your life.
Aspects of your purpose can be found in the work you choose, in the hobbies you pour yourself into, in the subjects you’re drawn to study, in the causes that stir you, and even in the way you approach your daily life. Your occupation might be a perfect match to your purpose, or it might not. And that’s okay. Purpose is not tied to a single job title. It can be fulfilled through multiple vocations, side projects, or passions.
What matters most is that you find outlets that bring you alive. Ones that use your talents, spark your curiosity, deepen your knowledge, and allow you to contribute in ways that feel meaningful. These pursuits often connect you to others who “get” you, leading you to your tribe and giving you a profound sense of belonging.
When Status Gets in the Way
Somewhere along the way, many of us lose our inner compass. The pull of status, societal pressure, or financial reward can nudge us into occupations and pursuits that don’t inspire our passion. And when we stop listening to what’s true for us, we slowly drift away from our purpose.
If you’ve made a sincere effort to get interested in something and failed, that’s likely your inner guidance speaking; you may not be meant to pour your life force into that direction. Of course, real life sometimes requires compromise. We may need to “make do” with what’s available to keep the lights on and the bills paid.
But here’s the key. You must take personal responsibility for finding and pursuing activities that nourish your spirit alongside those practical commitments. Even if your day job isn’t your soul’s calling, you can weave purpose into your life through the choices you make outside of it.
The Purpose Myth
One of the biggest misconceptions about purpose is that it must be tied to wealth or fame. This belief has created enormous confusion and distance between us and our inner guidance.
For some, making a lot of money or gaining recognition might be part of their soul’s chosen path, often because of the unique challenges that come with it. But for many of us, this is not the assignment. Purpose answers to deep callings and is not focused on being performative or conventionally successful.
Follow Your Aliveness
So, how do you move closer to your purpose? You pay attention to what makes you come alive. While you meet your financial needs, continue to carve out time for the things that bring you joy. The activities that feel meaningful and energizing aren’t just hobbies — they are clues to what truly matters. Your talents and interests are the tools of your purpose.
And here’s a vital truth: if you notice your joy slipping away, take action to restore it. Sometimes this means stepping back from the thing that drains you. Other times, it’s about adding in more of what nourishes you. As your joy returns, your life gradually falls back into congruence with your deeper calling.
Purpose is Not a Destination
It’s a path you create by saying yes to what feels true, no to what doesn’t, and staying open to the opportunities and connections that feel aligned. Keep following the threads of what excites you, and over time, you’ll look back and realize you’ve been living your purpose all along.
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