When you don’t have a defined Sacral your energy’s not sustainable, so you have to be smart about how you use your energy. This means that you have to be aware of your personal energy boundaries. You need to know when you are using too much of your precious energy and ensure you get sufficient rest and restoration. It’s not enough to read about the Projector’s energy limitations or how to make the best use of that energy – you have to get to know your capacities and honor them.
1. Don’t push into your fatigue. If you are already tired, you’re past the point where you should have stopped what you were doing. Once you push into your fatigue you will have a difficult time recovering. I realize that it’s not always possible to stop what you’re doing, especially if you are working for someone else, but when you know you’re going to be called on to work for long hours it’s critical to plan for that. This means that you get as much rest as possible between your assignments so that you have as much energy available to you as possible. This means that you don’t take on extra projects when you know the demands on your energy will be high.
2. Don’t take your energy levels for granted. Projectors will have days when they feel they can take on the world. This is because the undefined Sacral takes in the energy of others and then amplifies that energy. That Sacral is very dynamic when amplified. When the Projector has a Sacral that is bursting with energy they can act like super-Generators, and feel they can leap tall buildings in a single bound. When their energy is unleashed the Projector needs to take advantage of it and be discerning and prudent. It will run out.
3. Remember to discharge your excess energy daily. Every day the Projector picks up volumes of energy around them. This is natural for the Projector, and it is why the Projector is so gifted at reading the energy of others — because they are taking in that energy. At the end of your day make a practice of discharging the energy you’ve accumulated. Stand barefoot on the ground, walk on your bare feet, sit under a tree, or lie down in a room you have all to yourself. This is very restorative. Listening to music that removes you from the concerns and insults of the day will move you to a more peaceful state of mind. You can experiment with ways of discharging energy to find what is most effective for you – but the bottom line here is about letting go of what does not belong to you.
4. Don’t work against yourself. A significant energy drain for a Projector is working on tasks they don’t enjoy and are not meant for them. When you are doing work that is fulfilling you are energized. When you are doing work that engages your unique skills and creativity, your energy will flow.
Ideally, the Projector has all the energy they need when work is fulfilling. If work does not fulfill you, you should look for a way to leave that situation. If you cannot leave as soon as you would like, this is where the practice of preserving your energy becomes especially important. This means you do not take on any additional asks of your energy, and that you make sure you get as much rest as possible.
5. Find work that is true to who you are and that you love doing. Eventually, the Projector must find what works for them. This is a process of trial and error. Understand that as time goes by you will develop more skills and greater self-knowledge to help you understand what works for you.
Regardless of your stage in life, when you are engaged in a way that respects who you are and uses your gifts correctly, more energy will be available. Stick with jobs and projects that have your name on them and that you cannot resist taking on. What you’re drawn to doing and are compelled by is what you need to explore.
6. Process the advice of others through your truth filter. Projectors need to talk with the people they trust; this way they can get a sense of what’s right for them. But you’re not seeking advice as much as you need to hear your truth as you speak your words out loud. Talking with other people is genuinely helpful for the Projector, and you will probably have many conversations before you parse out clearly what will work for you. If you don’t get a handle on what you should do in a situation, and you decide to follow someone else’s advice (someone else’s truth), you will probably find yourself in an uncomfortable place. If something doesn’t feel right, if your intuition isn’t giving you the green light, don’t do it. The situation isn’t correct for you or the timing isn’t right. Keep talking, even if those conversations are just with yourself.
A Projector does well to have a few close friends to talk to. Eventually, you will know your next step. And remember, if it doesn’t feel good to you, forget about it.
7. Respect yourself. Know your limitations and stick to them. Don’t allow others to override what you know will work for you. Stand up for yourself and say no to requests that will make demands that may harm you if you try to meet them. Projectors are not here to be martyrs for others. Martyring your energy will undermine your ability to communicate your wisdom and insight, and live your life joyfully.
Negative Thoughts and Your Energy
We live in a world that is congested with many beings, with the energies of their thoughts, and the energies of their actions. A great deal of that energy is harmful. The best way to deal with negative energy is to make sure you discharge energy every day, and that you have activities that restore your state of mind and sense of well-being. Dancing, walking, listening to music, reading, watching movies, and so on, can be restful. You know which ones work for you.
There is no escaping how others think and act but we can protect ourselves by choosing to create healthy environments. We can eat food that sustains us and honors us. We can surround ourselves with beauty. We can treat others the way we want to be treated. We can withhold our judgments of others, and we can accept our life circumstances while we work for the changes that we need.
Just as we learn to work with circumstances that don’t meet our needs while we look for ways to improve them, we can let go of expectations on how beautiful we should look, how smart we should be, or how accomplished we should be. You will be much better off when you relax and trust that you can have what you need to become the full flourishing embodiment of your potential. When we seek to connect to those things that honor us and help us develop into our best selves, we are doing what we can to stay away from negativity.
There are times when we are going to feel like failures and things will happen that we didn’t want and that we didn’t foresee. It is the way it is because others are exercising their free will. This is how it is on the physical plane, which can be hazardous. The journey of the soul in third density is complex and challenging.
The very best you can do is to live your life with integrity. This means that you make choices that support your well-being. When you take care of your energy by resting and saying no to commitments that are not right for you, you will receive the invitations meant for you. The truth about invitations is the more you are yourself, the more others will recognize you and the invitations that are right for you will find you.
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